How To Talk To Adult Children About Divorce
Telling your children you’re getting divorced is never easy—no matter how old they are. When those children are adults, it can be especially complicated. They may have families of their own, busy lives, and a perspective shaped by years of seeing you as a stable couple. Breaking that image can feel like shaking the foundation […]
Pensions and Divorce: How To Protect Your Benefits
Divorce has a way of revealing just how connected your lives have become—even if you were married only a few years. And in the shuffle of paperwork, it’s easy to skip the things that won’t show up until later, like monthly checks from a pension plan. Here’s the simple truth: in Florida, the portion of […]
Things To Consider When You Divorce After 60
A divorce after age 50 (also known as a gray divorce or silver divorce) is a growing trend. But there’s a big difference between divorcing right after your 50th birthday and making that choice a decade later. By the time you reach 60, retirement is often here or just around the corner, your lifestyle may […]
How To Communicate With Your Ex Without Conflict
If you’re like most parents after divorce, you probably hoped you’d never have to talk to your ex again. But if you share children, total silence isn’t an option. You still need to coordinate pick-ups and drop-offs, discuss school events and extracurriculars, and share updates about your child’s health, feelings, and day-to-day needs. The problem? […]
Is Florida a Community Property State?
“If I get divorced, my ex will end up with half of my money!” We hear this worry every week from spouses who are already juggling heartbreak, bills, and sleepless nights. The thought of losing 50 percent of everything—from your checking account to Grandma’s heirloom dining set—can feel daunting. Here’s the good news: Florida is […]
Can My Ex Claim My Pension Years After Our Divorce?
You thought your divorce was behind you. You’ve rebuilt your life, maybe remarried, and you’re finally looking forward to retirement. Then the letter arrives—your ex-spouse’s attorney claiming they’re entitled to part of your pension pursuant to the terms of the divorce Your stomach drops. You go back and read the divorce decree or your settlement […]
What Are Irreconcilable Differences In a Florida Divorce?
If you’ve started researching divorce in Florida, you’ve probably bumped into a couple of intimidating phrases—irreconcilable differences and irretrievably broken. They sound legalistic and, frankly, a bit harsh. Take a breath. Under Florida’s no-fault divorce system, these terms aren’t hurdles you have to clear; they’re simply two ways to tell the court the same story: […]
What Is Gray Divorce?
You might think divorce is something that happens to young couples—but that’s no longer the case. More and more people are deciding to end their marriages later in life, even after decades together. This growing trend is known as gray divorce, and it’s becoming more common than ever among older couples. In fact, the divorce […]
Retirement, 401(k), & Divorce: What You Need To Know
You’ve been putting money away for retirement for years, even starting to imagine what your future might look like. Now you’re facing divorce, and you may be wondering: “Will I have to start over?” It’s a completely understandable worry. Your retirement accounts represent more than just money—they represent security, independence, and the future you’ve been […]
My Husband Cashed Out Our 401k…What Now?
You’re already navigating one of the most difficult transitions of your life—and then it happens: Your spouse cashed out the 401(k). Now, the retirement you both planned for feels like it just disappeared, and you’re left wondering what this means for your future. The good news? Florida divorce law has safeguards in place to protect […]